How do you accept buying a car you don’t like for practicality?

Hey everyone, I’m in the process of replacing my car and I’ve decided to go with a midsize crossover. I currently drive an ‘08 Camry that I absolutely love, but it’s getting older and the repair bills are adding up. I need something more reliable and with enough space for my family (parents, siblings, dogs occasionally).

The problem is I really don’t like the look of SUVs/crossovers or the way they drive. They just don’t compare to the comfort of my Camry. While people say to drive your dream car, not everyone has that luxury, and I have to prioritize practicality right now.

For anyone else who’s been in this position, how did you come to terms with choosing practicality over passion? Did you find a way to be happy with your decision?

Just think of the car as a tool. It gets you where you need to go safely and reliably. You can always have a practical daily car and save up for your dream car later for fun drives.

Don’t do it. Imagine being stuck in traffic every day in a car you hate. Even the color matters! You’ll just regret it.

Never settle for a car you don’t like, even if it’s practical. You’ll regret it and start looking for ways to replace it in a few years.

I’ve been there. I drive a CX-5, which I love, but sometimes I need to borrow my dad’s Montero for space. It’s not fun to drive, and every time I use it, I can’t wait to get my car back. Even my dad tries to trade with me permanently because he likes my CX-5 so much.

If you’re someone who really enjoys driving, don’t compromise. It’s worth finding a balance between practicality and joy.

@Lin
Sounds like your dad needs to try a Miata next. He’ll love it even more!

@Lin
Big agree here. Choosing a car you enjoy driving makes a huge difference. We’ve got a Mazda 3, CX-3, and a CX-5 in the family because we all love how they drive. It’s worth sticking with what makes you happy if you can.

I broke it down financially. My dream car was a Mitsubishi Galant, but the gas mileage was terrible, and I spent a lot on fuel. I switched to a more fuel-efficient car, saved money, and eventually upgraded to an SUV that fit my family’s needs. It wasn’t my dream car, but I focused on the savings and the benefits it brought long-term. Sometimes you have to think about what matters most for your future.

I had the same issue. My first car was a Civic, and it set the bar so high. When it came time to replace it, nothing felt right for a while. We spent a year searching and eventually found a car we’re happy with. Take your time if you can—it’s worth it to find something you’ll enjoy.

@Madden
What did you end up getting?

Briley said:
@Madden
What did you end up getting?

We went with a CX-8.

I just bought another car I liked. If you don’t like it now, you probably never will.

Use the practicality to save up for the car you really want. Turn it into motivation.

If you can afford it, go for what makes you happy. I’d rather sit in traffic in a car I love, even if it uses more gas.

Over time, I just started to appreciate the practicality. You might grow to like it once you see how it makes life easier.

If practicality doesn’t match your personality, it’s better to wait and save up for something that does.

Focus on the positives. No more constant repairs! Sure, my daily car has some rattles, but the fuel savings make me smile every time I fill up.

Think of it as a phase in your life. Later on, you might be able to afford multiple cars that serve different purposes.

I felt the same way when I switched to a CX-5 from my Civic. It wasn’t my first choice, but it fits my family and works for road trips. Sometimes practicality wins.

Try test driving a few SUVs. You might find one that feels better to drive than you expected. There are lots of options these days.

If you really love driving, stick with what you love. Maybe a hybrid Camry could give you the practicality you need without losing the joy.