I (38M) recently had to make the hardest decision of my life about my dog, Buddy (12M). His health had been declining rapidly over the last year—he was in constant pain, barely able to walk, and the vet said euthanasia was the only option.
But when I asked about the cost, it was way more than I could afford. I live in a rural area, and even getting Buddy to the vet was physically challenging for me—I’m over 500 pounds and not in great health myself. My truck, a Ford Raptor, guzzles gas, and with prices these days, just the trip alone would have been a financial strain.
I know my priorities aren’t perfect. I have a bad habit of relying on junk food and soda for comfort, which doesn’t come cheap either. But it’s one of the few things that keeps me going, and I couldn’t see a way to cut back enough to afford the vet bill without breaking myself even more.
So, I made the decision to handle it myself. I took Buddy to his favorite spot in the woods, spent time with him, and then I shot him. It was quick, and I hope it was painless. Afterward, I brought him to the swamp and let him sink into the water.
I feel awful about it, but I didn’t see another option given my financial situation and physical limitations. I truly loved Buddy, and this was the best I could do for him with what I had. AITAH?
YTA for prioritizing your comforts over your dog’s humane treatment. The story feels fake, but if it’s real, it’s even worse. Next time, figure out how to save money where it matters.
Joss said:
YTA for prioritizing your comforts over your dog’s humane treatment. The story feels fake, but if it’s real, it’s even worse. Next time, figure out how to save money where it matters.
I get why you’re upset, but life’s complicated, man. I made a choice I could live with under my circumstances.
So you’re saying a 500-pound man waddled into the forest with a dog that couldn’t walk, shot him, and then managed to throw his body in a swamp? None of this sounds real.
Farmers have been doing this for years with old dogs, but your story is just all over the place. You drive a Raptor but couldn’t afford a humane euthanasia?
I’ve put down animals both with a vet and with a gun. Sometimes the gun is kinder. No painful trip, no strange smells or needles. It’s not an easy decision, but I get it.
Kim said:
I’ve put down animals both with a vet and with a gun. Sometimes the gun is kinder. No painful trip, no strange smells or needles. It’s not an easy decision, but I get it.
Thank you. That’s what I was trying to do—give Buddy peace in a way that didn’t add to his stress or pain.
There’s no easy way to say goodbye to a beloved pet. You did what you thought was best in the moment. Some folks might not understand, but I’ve been there.